The Unraveling Woman
Join the community built for women from cultural backgrounds navigating divorce from narcissistic and controlling partners.
What you are joining
The Unraveling Woman podcast — a weekly show covering the full journey from recognizing the patterns, through the legal and financial process, to rebuilding on the other side. You will be first to know when it drops.
A private space for women from cultural backgrounds who are navigating this without a map. No judgment. No "go back and try harder." Just women who understand — because they are living it too.
A 20-page no-fluff guide covering everything you need in your first 30 days of leaving. Documents. Finances. Your children. Your mind. Written for women whose cultures never gave them a roadmap for this. $27 — instant download.
A structured template for logging incidents, documenting abusive or manipulative communications, and building your legal paper trail from day one. Covers cross-border assets, foreign bank accounts, pension funds abroad, and currency conversion tracking — because when your financial life spans more than one country, the gaps are where the damage happens. The tool designed to protect everything before he moves it. $37.
Post-divorce budgeting, credit rebuilding, and asset mapping tools — because financial freedom is not a luxury, it is the foundation everything else is built on. Designed for women rebuilding from the ground up. $27.
Ada Shoga is writing the book she needed and could not find. Members of this community will be the first to read it — and the first to be heard in shaping it.
This is for you if —
Your family told you to stay and endure.
Your community does not have the language for what you are going through.
He used your culture against you — and he knew exactly how.
You have been doing this alone, and you are exhausted.
You have assets, children, or legal complexity in more than one country.
You are African, South Asian, Caribbean, Middle Eastern, Latina — or any woman whose culture taught her that leaving is failure.
You have been waiting for a space that understands all of it at once.
You are ready — or almost ready — to choose yourself.
"I didn't plan to build a platform.
I planned to survive.
The guide I needed didn't exist.
So I became the woman I needed."
Ada Shoga
Founder, The Unraveling Woman · unravelingwoman.com
You are not alone in this. The community is waiting.